Crystals, New People and Spontaneous Shopping Trips

I’ve been trying find a lot of me time recently and it hasn’t been the easiest when I’ve been at work everyday for 9 hours, 6 days a week. I feel slightly suffocated when I’m around the same people 24/7, it can be hard to be patient with different people, as we are all trying to get to know each other still. I am only 2 months in to my contract and it’s been hard to let people in bit by bit when i know i have to spend the next 18 months with them. It’s always natural to make a closer bond with a couple of people, as its human. I think it’s important to stick to those natural connections and surround yourself with those people who you feel closer with because they will keep you smiling. I also think it’s important to keep that effort with the rest of your employees because it is polite and it should really not affect your own energy.

I learnt that i need to make sure i do a couple of things a week that keep me in track with myself, even if its spread out during the week and i go for that coffee date or cinema trip to just forget about work and zone out. I realised i really neeeed this! We all need to just find that calm in all of the drama in our crazy life. Ah, i read about our every day shower can be therapeutic, as in we rush and make getting ready just a casual routine and it’s always rushed for us to get out of the house. But if you really try to make sure you make enough time to enjoy your shower and get ready, with some music in the background, feeling the water against your skin. Showering should be therapeutic, make it part of the day where you just you can’t wait to shower or bathe. Make it a breather for you to wake yourself up or to wind you down after a long day. Showering should be one of your favourite times of the day!

img_1006I bought a rose quartz crystal and a dream catcher last week sunday. The rose quartz represents unconditional love and self-love, so I’m trying to really work on self-love this year by just really appreciating who i am and realising that i am beautiful and sexy. I mean I found it very strange to even write that down. So, women there is always a start, get that pen and paper and write it down. See how you feel, say it aloud and see how you feel. We have to work on actually feeling it without becoming arrogant, but single ladies once you embrace that beauty you will find your match. Surprisingly it all goes down hill again when you get into relationships because you want to just impress your partner naturally and be that sexy lady, but that is all just your natural thoughts starting going crazy. Just stay calm because your man is with you because you are sexy and beautiful, embrace it with your partner. Walk around him with a smile and shake that booty whilst you walk, he will always be happy if you are, End of!

I was browsing around the shops with my friend and decided to just buy clothes to go out that night; this is not the first time I’ve just bought clothes there and then and changed in the changing rooms for the night, we was in decent clothes but we wanted something to wear straight away to hit the bars. Please tell me, we are not the only ones who have done this? So we got some bottles and then went back to hers to get ready and then we didn’t even leave the house!!! Hilarious, we just sat there drinking and chatting to her house mate. It was so perfect, with our favourite tunes in the background. So women, always go with the flow because now i have a spare sexy outfit ready for a cheeky night out. I feel this is going to be the norm whilst travelling, Woopsy!

We need to get out more often. Be free.

XOXO

Samara

WE LIVE LIKE ROBOTS

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We all have times when we get really busy and we get a sudden rush of having to do a million of things at the same time. If you spread your work out; breath and take your time with everything; you will most likely get more things done than rushing, panicking and trying to get it done all at once. Really try to chill out and relax when you have a lot on your plate. One step at a time. Trust me, i put that into practice today and most likely the whole tour because i have to cover two main roles in the musical I’m doing (Matilda). Find that calm state you think you don’t have, especially as women as we have so much hormones running through our bodies. We don’t want an easy life.

I love people watching, especially on the tube or at coffee shops. People are so interesting and they all have their own story and individual life going on, it’s mad. Everyone on their own journey. I find it so therapeutic wondering what’s going on in their tiny little brains. We all look like robots sometimes when we pace about from door to door and totally forget to take our time to breathe in that air that surround us. I think everyone naturally feels tired in the morning, but why moan and depress ourself when we can just embrace it for what it is and then try to rest in the evening. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes I’m shattered but i got no where complaining and dwelling on it. So now, I’m really trying to find that relaxed state and just eating the right things when i feel this way. Even when i know i have some time to rest i think it will be wise to close my eyes for a couple of minutes and just be. Then your day off arrives and you can either start the day with your schedule and then get on that sofa and zone out for a bit. There is always time.

SMILE AND SIT BACK, NO ONE IS RUSHING YOU

We always have to be somewhere at certain at a time. I would say just set your alarm early or find a way where you can chill and do what’s best for you before you have to reach your destination/work. Just find a calm before you have to start challenging that amazing brain of ours. If I have to get up early i’m going to really try waking up earlier to put some good things in my body instead of rushing out without any fuel and starting work on an empty. Lets try to build and create our own life we want to live, really trying to be in control what we do instead of the way of life forcing us to get into that boring routine where we just end up all in a terrible mess.


Deep post today. I just feel it’s really important to make yourself feel good, right?!

Here’s some new in ASOS items i loved today.

How do you feel about grey? I love the nude and subtle colours, AND BLACK! On the left we have the Bloch heels which always goes well with jeans or a dress, Bloch heels are just so much more comfy than thing heeled shoes. So if you are ready for a long night out than these are the shoes for you! Heels just slightly under the knee, i would dress these with blue jeans and the love slogan jumper from Topshop that i posted yesterday. Snazzy!!

 

This blue velvet jacket is such a beautiful colour. It worn at all times especially when it starts getting warmer, hopefully! I never wear long skirts but those long-legged stunning women out there please put them on. This hot-shot pink colour is everything!! Girl, you dying to pick up all the compliments wearing this.


 

Thank you for reading

XOXO SAMARA

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Let’s Explore And Meet New People

Just expressing some thoughts.

Exploring and travelling is a great way to find who you are. I moved to Germany 3 years ago to work. OMGOSH, that feeling before moving to another country; away from family and friends; was not cute, it was freaking my head out. I thought I wan’t strong enough to do something like this. Something in me said “you have to do this, go and live”. That was it, in a blink of an eye I was in Germany learning how to skate and was taught how to sing in another language. Crazy, right! The things we put our minds too, its all possible.

The main focus of this blog is not the people you leave; because they already love the real you; but the people you meet. It’s so exiting meeting new faces, it’s one of my favourite things to do. When you engage in conversations with people you don’t know, you’ll end up naturally exploring the simple questions that they are asking you about yourself, questions that you’d never sit down and think about. The questions they ask you and the way you respond is the real you. You may be shy or excited, but that’s how you naturally socialise. Your reactions to new people is your natural instincts, some people protect and some people are open, we are all different and amazing! This is us out of our own comfort zone, challenging the true inner self, ahhhh it’s all so exciting to me!

Do we naturally judge? Do we like judging before we meet people?

I don’t think people judge in spiteful way (Lets not be negative, if they haven’t even  offended you, if so, then that’s their issue, not yours), I think it’s natural to judge people and we always seem to melt to the people that remind them of ourselves. Remember, you don’t need to impress people because they will naturally enjoy your energy, flare and in the end they will surround themselves around you with out you even trying. Smiling is always a warm welcome to people. Don’t rush trying finding out about people lives, you really don’t need to. The beautiful souls that you find interesting will naturally open themselves to you. We are not silly, our bodies know straight away when somebody makes us feel comfortable. Just enjoy it, LOVE meeting new people. Tell yourself that you LOVE meeting new people.

Do you love meeting new people? Let me know about your experiences.

XOXO SAMARA

YOUR INNER WAR!

I’m always finding ways to make myself happy and do you know what? I really want you to do the same for yourself, make time for you as its so important. Even if it includes family, and friends and loved ones. I get these feelings once a week where I get really down for no reason. I suffer with mild anxiety from time to time since very young age, and I’m sure most of you beautiful women do too. When I was younger I always wondered why I cried so much and why I was always hyper sensitive. Now its part of who I am and it’s time for me to embrace it. I say this, but when that same feeling comes again next week I end up not knowing what’s wrong. You will laugh, but most of the time I’m just HANGRY (hungry/angry).

So beauties, if you are feeling something else either than happiness, stay with that emotion and enjoy it. Go get some treats and do something that always brings that smile to that face of yours. You are allowed to treat yourself, you know. Who says you can’t? You are only in war with yourself, really! You are your own battle. Once you come in peace with your own war, you will see freedom in that powerful mind of yours.

PEACE OUT

XOXO SAMARA XOXO

Do What YOU Want To Do

“I LIKE THE WAY SHE MOVES, DEH DUN DUN”

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I was rolling about all night urging to get up and to get writing, I haven’t had this alive feeling in a very long time. I really want you sexy women out there to do something you’ve always wanted to do. I’ve been wanting to write for about 6 months now, I was researching into what to do and all the best solutions was to just write, easy right. The only advice out there is, JUST DO IT! (So Nike)

Do you had any interests you’ve been wanting to do or a hobby that you’ve always wanted to start? I.e skating (yes i skate), drawing, studying yoga or just practising, writing a book. There’s so many fascinating things to do in the world. I’m sure you have something in the back of that amazing brain of yours, 100%. Well today could be the day, why don’t you do some reasearch or go book a class, just find some time, get up and as I said earlier, “DO IT”. Even if you’re doing a yoga class on YouTube (FYI they are the best).

I get this feeling of euphoria and I feel so content doing something so simple but yet so adventurous. I bet you’ll start to feel this feeling of worth and choosing what you really want to do is your calling in life, Oh gosh, I’m getting all deep and dramatic. New things are exciting! Remember when you was young and you found so much things to do before all the social media crap came into business. Now we can use the new “2017” social excitement to infuse in stuff we loved to do when we was growing up! How exciting is that? “It is what it is”, I say.

“I FEEEEEEL GOOD, DEH NUR NEH NUR NEH NUR NEH NEH!”

I have some cute work out and yoga wear I would love to share with you today.

I love a matching set and Fabletics always seem to just “DO IT” right, I tend to like blacks and Nudy pinks, but blacks make you look slimmer apparently. As a dancer we all tend to wear a lot of black clothing, also you can totes wear these in the day if you’re in a comfy mood with some converses or trainers, just throw a jumper over the top. You can find these items on Fabletic.com


ADIDAS

MY FAVOURITE SPORTS BRANDDDDDD!! You can feel my excitement right.

  1. We have the Adidas Originals black and white print. This outfit can be worn at the gym or to adance class. So funky!
  2. We’ve got the classy culottes pants, the material of these are so sung, you can wear it outdoors, indoors or just to go shopping.  Such a chill out outfit right.
  3. The classic Adidas shorts and jumper duo. You can mix and match these items with any day wear. I love working out in shorts, I just feel free as I get so hot in the gym and I can’t stand feeling clostaphobic
  4. We have Samara’s everyday rehearsal style outfit choice, which is the classic running shorts and a snazzy cropped top. Ready for any sort of sporty class.

You can find all these items on ASOS, have a browse lovelies.


There you have it, feel motivated in a snazzy urban or classy sports outfit to motivate you in everything you do. We don’t have to be stuck in jeans or a suit everyday. We can switch it up because we are fabulous stylish women. It’s soooooo easy! Get exploring.

“You are capable of anything you put your mind too”

XOXO SAMARA

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Christmas Feels

CHRISTMASSSSSSSSS!

We all love the white, cold and light Christmas happiness. This is the time we all wake up feeling it, BRRRRR!

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So lets buy some some cosy indoor fluffy socks and lets get the COZY pjs out.

Get your best friend or your lover and get out the mulled wine. I personally love mulled wine and amaretto, you have to try it.

Get up and go to any Christmas markets (Winter wonderland) , or travel via Germany you will be in awe as they have the best Christmas markets in every city. We love to eat, lets admit it, German sausages go down a treat with some chips, oh and yes chocolate covered apples, bananas and churros with Nutella!! I’m making you hungry, i know it.

Go and read a book in coffee shops, it keeps you warm and gets you out. Totally the season to read more as well.

Go for walks in the snow, in locals forests or parks. So beautiful.

I always wondered why people say their mood changes like the weather because they still on the high from summer/autumn. But really its all in our mind. Embrace and feel it, or invest in a mini fireplace and make this season your favourite. It gives you chances to go ice skating and to go on walks in towns and see all the Christmas lights. Summer doesn’t bring that.

Ohhhhhh! I’m going to focus more on the online shopping websites in most of my blogs and ASOS is perfect as I’m always travelling, their website is soooo easy to use as it’s full of all my favourite shops.


Here’s a few items to mix up your wardrobe and fix your personality this winter!

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ASOS Frill Cuff Long Sleeves

Add on sleeves which is a fabulous accessorie to summer bandeau tops.

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ASOS Chubby Vintage Faux Fur Coat

VINATGEEEEEEEE, A cropped fur jacket is always necessary in your wardrobe, the lighter the colours of the jacket the more they suit everyday wear. Pink and grey is the one.

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Religion Long line Coat In Cow Print Faux Fur

This is a statement brave cow print long line coat to add some edge to your collection.

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Only Leather Look Skinny Jeans

A lovely coated skinny jean is just what you need in winter, throw on with basic T-shirts or dress it up with heels.

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TTYA Black Bonded Velvet Sweetheart Bandeau Maxi Dress With Thigh Split

A glam dress for any Christmas bouji events you have coming up, Christmas or New Year’s.

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ASOS LOUNGE Velvet Velour Off Shoulder Sweat

Lounge wear is so comfy, in doors and sometimes out doors or you can wear to bed. You decide!

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Club L Allover Embellished Detail Mini Dress

A sparkle number always is the one on nights out!! Girl put the fur on top and you are ready!


P.S Get up and do something today, Smile and give someone a compliment. Go on, don’t be shy! Be the best you can be.

XOXO SAMARA

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