I’ve been trying to find a lot of me time recently and it hasn’t been the easiest when I’ve been at work everyday for 9 hours, 6 days a week. I feel slightly suffocated when I’m around the same people 24/7, it can be hard to be patient with different people, as we are all trying to get to know each other still. I am only 2 months in to my contract and it’s been hard to let people in bit by bit when i know i have to spend the next 18 months with them. It’s always natural to make a closer bond with a couple of people, as its human. I think it’s important to stick to those natural connections and surround yourself with those people who you feel closer with because they will keep you smiling. I also think it’s important to keep that effort with the rest of your employees because it is polite and it should really not affect your own energy.I learnt that i need to make sure i do a couple of things a week that keep me in track with myself, even if its spread out during the week and i go for that coffee date or cinema trip to just forget about work and zone out. I realised i really neeeed this! We all need to just find that calm in all of the drama in our crazy life. Ah, i read about our every day shower can be therapeutic, as in we rush and make getting ready just a casual routine and it’s always rushed for us to get out of the house. But if you really try to make sure you make enough time to enjoy your shower and get ready, with some music in the background, feeling the water against your skin. Showering should be therapeutic, make it part of the day where you just you can’t wait to shower or bathe. Make it a breather for you to wake yourself up or to wind you down after a long day. Showering should be one of your favourite times of the day!I bought a rose quartz crystal and a dream catcher last week sunday. The rose quartz represents unconditional love and self-love, so I’m trying to really work on self-love this year by just really appreciating who i am and realising that i am beautiful and sexy. I mean I found it very strange to even write that down. So, women there is always a start, get that pen and paper and write it down. See how you feel, say it aloud and see how you feel. We have to work on actually feeling it without becoming arrogant, but single ladies once you embrace that beauty you will find your match. Surprisingly it all goes down hill again when you get into relationships because you want to just impress your partner naturally and be that sexy lady, but that is all just your natural thoughts starting going crazy. Just stay calm because your man is with you because you are sexy and beautiful, embrace it with your partner. Walk around him with a smile and shake that booty whilst you walk, he will always be happy if you are, End of!I was browsing around the shops with my friend and decided to just buy clothes to go out that night; this is not the first time I’ve just bought clothes there and then and changed in the changing rooms for the night, we was in decent clothes but we wanted something to wear straight away to hit the bars. Please tell me, we are not the only ones who have done this? So we got some bottles and then went back to hers to get ready and then we didn’t even leave the house!!! Hilarious, we just sat there drinking and chatting to her house mate. It was so perfect, with our favourite tunes in the background. So women, always go with the flow because now i have a spare sexy outfit ready for a cheeky night out. I feel this is going to be the norm whilst travelling, Woopsy!We need to get out more often. Be free.XOXOSamara
Last minute choices are the best. I love to book spontaneous and last minute trips with my love when we get the chance. After filling my belly up with an exciting food choice of steak for Christmas and spending time in germany with the second family we decided to book a Christmas trip to Amsterdam. We literally got home with a glass of wine and got online and booked train tickets and the hotel in half an hour. We had about 1 hour to pack for our 2 night trip away!! It was the best decision and I had the best time, we got on the train at 8pm and then 3 hours later we was there. Look how easy life can be. We got all dressed up and hit the town to dance off the Christmas food at my favourite live jazz club (Sugar Factory).
Any chance you have, try to save up a little cash or put some extra last travelling money aside and book that random crazy trip that you’ve always been thinking about. Grab someone fun and have the time of your life. Dance on the streets when you can and laugh all day. Dancing and laughing is a sign of healing. So get out there and be free, the feeling of freedom is the best feeling i have ever experienced. Maybe you are not a travelling person, but you never know until you try it. The feeling of last minute decisions is insane, but just go with the flow and let your mind be free
I watched The Helene Fischer show on Christmas Day in Amsterdam on ZDF, and i am was overwhelmed with how amazing hard work pays off. I am so privalidge that i had the chance to dance behind such a wonderful and strong women. If you have a spare minute, please check this video footage on YouTube of one of the numbers i did in the show starring Vanessa Mai: https://youtu.be/FKFwYq08FwE!
Top moment in 2017!
I packed my monki outfits that i showed you in my previous post, here’s me in the monki vinatge jumper and in cross eyelet jeans.
Be wild And Free!
Thank you for reading, Love Samara
Just expressing some thoughts.
Exploring and travelling is a great way to find who you are. I moved to Germany 3 years ago to work. OMGOSH, that feeling before moving to another country; away from family and friends; was not cute, it was freaking my head out. I thought I wan’t strong enough to do something like this. Something in me said “you have to do this, go and live”. That was it, in a blink of an eye I was in Germany learning how to skate and was taught how to sing in another language. Crazy, right! The things we put our minds too, its all possible.
The main focus of this blog is not the people you leave; because they already love the real you; but the people you meet. It’s so exiting meeting new faces, it’s one of my favourite things to do. When you engage in conversations with people you don’t know, you’ll end up naturally exploring the simple questions that they are asking you about yourself, questions that you’d never sit down and think about. The questions they ask you and the way you respond is the real you. You may be shy or excited, but that’s how you naturally socialise. Your reactions to new people is your natural instincts, some people protect and some people are open, we are all different and amazing! This is us out of our own comfort zone, challenging the true inner self, ahhhh it’s all so exciting to me!
Do we naturally judge? Do we like judging before we meet people?
I don’t think people judge in spiteful way (Lets not be negative, if they haven’t even offended you, if so, then that’s their issue, not yours), I think it’s natural to judge people and we always seem to melt to the people that remind them of ourselves. Remember, you don’t need to impress people because they will naturally enjoy your energy, flare and in the end they will surround themselves around you with out you even trying. Smiling is always a warm welcome to people. Don’t rush trying finding out about people lives, you really don’t need to. The beautiful souls that you find interesting will naturally open themselves to you. We are not silly, our bodies know straight away when somebody makes us feel comfortable. Just enjoy it, LOVE meeting new people. Tell yourself that you LOVE meeting new people.
Do you love meeting new people? Let me know about your experiences.
I’m always finding ways to make myself happy and do you know what? I really want you to do the same for yourself, make time for you as its so important. Even if it includes family, and friends and loved ones. I get these feelings once a week where I get really down for no reason. I suffer with mild anxiety from time to time since very young age, and I’m sure most of you beautiful women do too. When I was younger I always wondered why I cried so much and why I was always hyper sensitive. Now its part of who I am and it’s time for me to embrace it. I say this, but when that same feeling comes again next week I end up not knowing what’s wrong. You will laugh, but most of the time I’m just HANGRY (hungry/angry).
So beauties, if you are feeling something else either than happiness, stay with that emotion and enjoy it. Go get some treats and do something that always brings that smile to that face of yours. You are allowed to treat yourself, you know. Who says you can’t? You are only in war with yourself, really! You are your own battle. Once you come in peace with your own war, you will see freedom in that powerful mind of yours.
XOXO SAMARA XOXO
We all love the white, cold and light Christmas happiness. This is the time we all wake up feeling it, BRRRRR!
So lets buy some some cosy indoor fluffy socks and lets get the COZY pjs out.
Get your best friend or your lover and get out the mulled wine. I personally love mulled wine and amaretto, you have to try it.
Get up and go to any Christmas markets (Winter wonderland) , or travel via Germany you will be in awe as they have the best Christmas markets in every city. We love to eat, lets admit it, German sausages go down a treat with some chips, oh and yes chocolate covered apples, bananas and churros with Nutella!! I’m making you hungry, i know it.
Go and read a book in coffee shops, it keeps you warm and gets you out. Totally the season to read more as well.
Go for walks in the snow, in locals forests or parks. So beautiful.
I always wondered why people say their mood changes like the weather because they still on the high from summer/autumn. But really its all in our mind. Embrace and feel it, or invest in a mini fireplace and make this season your favourite. It gives you chances to go ice skating and to go on walks in towns and see all the Christmas lights. Summer doesn’t bring that.
Ohhhhhh! I’m going to focus more on the online shopping websites in most of my blogs and ASOS is perfect as I’m always travelling, their website is soooo easy to use as it’s full of all my favourite shops.
Here’s a few items to mix up your wardrobe and fix your personality this winter!
ASOS Frill Cuff Long Sleeves
Add on sleeves which is a fabulous accessorie to summer bandeau tops.
ASOS Chubby Vintage Faux Fur Coat
VINATGEEEEEEEE, A cropped fur jacket is always necessary in your wardrobe, the lighter the colours of the jacket the more they suit everyday wear. Pink and grey is the one.
Religion Long line Coat In Cow Print Faux Fur
This is a statement brave cow print long line coat to add some edge to your collection.
Only Leather Look Skinny Jeans
A lovely coated skinny jean is just what you need in winter, throw on with basic T-shirts or dress it up with heels.
TTYA Black Bonded Velvet Sweetheart Bandeau Maxi Dress With Thigh Split
A glam dress for any Christmas bouji events you have coming up, Christmas or New Year’s.
ASOS LOUNGE Velvet Velour Off Shoulder Sweat
Lounge wear is so comfy, in doors and sometimes out doors or you can wear to bed. You decide!
Club L Allover Embellished Detail Mini Dress
A sparkle number always is the one on nights out!! Girl put the fur on top and you are ready!
P.S Get up and do something today, Smile and give someone a compliment. Go on, don’t be shy! Be the best you can be.